Selfishness

not to brag or anything, but i feel like i am a selfless person most of the time. being a selfless person, do i really deserve constantly meeting selfish people? they are a waste of my time and money. first it was the bike thing, then the apartment thing, then it was the friend thing, and it's getting to just having a decent group to hang out with.

so if you are constantly bored, look for something to do. and if you don't have anyone to do it with and don't want to do it alone, then invite someone. don't just ask someone to hang out and not come up with something to do. it's fine to act in such away once in awhile, but not every fucking time!

oh yeah, when someone invites you out to a movie, or any event, in advance. think about your future, what are you going to do that day? is it going interfere with another event, is the prior event going to exhaust you? because the actual planning of the outing takes up time, money, and energy, but of course not your time, money, and energy, it's your friend that had invited you out's time, money, and energy. you don't realize this because you are not doing the actual planning. oh yeah, and when you are running late to the show after saying you are definitely going to make it, use a phone and call! do not text, but make sure that person gets that message one way or another, especially when you know your phone has been FUCKING UP!!! technology these days is fucking phenomenal, but it does not work all the time. be considerate to others and not just yourself. i know it's all about taking care of number one, but number one is going to be depressed when he/she soon looses all his/her friends because of their inconsideration.